Free Resources

Free separation and divorce resources to educate you about “getting unmarried.”  This page will continue to be updated, so check back often.  We invite you to email us with suggested resources.

RIVER CHATTM . If you are in our area, feel free to join us at River ChatTM, our informal separation and divorce group where we share support and resources. We ask that you let us know you will be attending by emailing us at info@EverChangingRiver.com. Check out our events page for the next River ChatTM.

NOW, MORE FREE RESOURCES……

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE – TECHNOLOGY AND SAFETY PLANNING:  This PDF, from courts.oregon.gov, talks about things to consider regarding how technology might be used to control or harm you.  Computers, cell phones, etc., can all have downsides.  Read more.

LAWS – Loudoun Abused Women’s Shelter (LAWS): From their website  http://lcsj.org/:  LAWS has a 24-hour hotline if you need to speak to someone immediately:  703.777.6552

SOCIAL SECURITY SPOUSAL BENEFITS:  Do you qualify for divorced spouse benefits through the Social Security Administration?  Check out the FAQs and then call SSA with any questions.  Read more.

VIRGINIA BAR ASSOCIATION – FAMILY LAW SECTION: Read more.

VIRGINIA BAR ASSOCIATION SPARE THE CHILD: From the Virginia Bar Association Website:

“Giving parents a compass for navigating family dissolution, Spare the Child guides parents and families through the difficult and often overwhelming task of restructuring a family. The documentary-style, conversational video  uses everyday language and gives examples from experienced interviewees. Judges, lawyers, guardians ad litem, counselors, teachers, and children of divorce relate their experiences and observations to guide families who are currently in the process of family restructuring.”

PDF LINK TO SPARE THE CHILD: Read more.

VIDEO LINK TO SPARE THE CHILD:  See more.

INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES:

Sometimes an inspirational quote about life, overcoming challenges, creating your future and maintaining a positive attitude can help you change your perspective and get you headed in a better direction. We are in part a product of our thoughts.  Here are some inspirational quotes to get you started.

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If nothing ever changed, there’d be no butterflies. – Anonymous

The journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step. – Chinese Proverb

Your future is created by what you do today, not tomorrow. – Robert T. Kiyosaki

The starting point of all achievement is desire. Keep this constantly in mind. Weak desires bring weak results, just as a small amount of fire makes a small amount of heat. – Napoleon Hill

For every problem you ever come across, sit down and brainstorm 10 different solutions. – Brian Tracy

Positive thinking will let you do everything better than negative thinking will. – Zig Ziglar

I have not failed 10,000 times. I have successfully found 10,000 ways that will not work. – Thomas A. Edison